docs: media player subsystem architecture and conventions

Document the media server process, /media/ port map, library layout on
the ./media bind mount, Hope's media MCP toolset, the music/mic
mutual-exclusion rule, and yt-dlp download/proxy conventions.

media/jobs/d1aab72f3953.json

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+{"id": "d1aab72f3953", "track_id": "hR7xhDhDGR0", "stage": "error", "progress": 0.0, "error": "ERROR: [youtube] hR7xhDhDGR0: This video is unavailable", "started_at": 1788023758.6851313}