docs: media player subsystem architecture and conventions

Document the media server process, /media/ port map, library layout on
the ./media bind mount, Hope's media MCP toolset, the music/mic
mutual-exclusion rule, and yt-dlp download/proxy conventions.

media/jobs/7436101dd688.json

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